Tuesday, May 26, 2015

How to Develop A Powerful Voice


One of the most important things on being attractive to woman is having a powerful voice. The way you deliver things is even more important than the word itself. It sounds very basic but this is the aspect that many guys fail upon.

A man who have a controlled voice, the one who doesn't change the pitch of his voice even facing a very beautiful woman is the one who is most likely get's the respect and attention.
Some tries to speak with a deep voice even if they don't have it naturally, they sounds very robotic or unnatural, and it's worse than having a high pitch voice.
Commanding, authoritative voice is not necessarily need to be a deep voice.

Since some of us are not usually taught by our parents to speak in an alpha or attractive way, we develop to have bad speaking habits. However there is still hope to correct it by practice.
The following are some of the key points that you must observe on how to have a powerful, persuasive and attractive voice.
  1. Breath in and fill your lungs up with air, your chest and shoulder should not raise, your belly should rise instead.
  2. Use your diaphragm muscle and feel the vibration of the sternum not on the nose.
  3. Silence, use pauses if needed, try not to use fillers such as ah and uhms.
  4. Be articulate, start and finish each word, pronounce every syllable of the word and don't mumble.
  5. Certainty, Having downward inflection at the end of the sentence transmits certainty, so instead of speaking with an upward voice, speak with a downward or breaking rapport voice.

Those pointers are just simple guides, you will not sound naturally very good at in an instant, you always have to be conscious and build a habit of auto-correcting yourself every time you talk.
Given with enough time of practice, you will soon improve a little bit.
I said a little bit because you still have to work on you core confidence.
Having a trained speaking skill is good, but it becomes useless if you don't have that much confidence. When you're nervous, your facial and vocal muscle will twitch, you're speaking pace will be faster, and your pitch will be higher.

That said, my advice is to practice proper speaking every day.
As soon as you wake up, go in front of the mirror and practice your speech, while observing the key points on this article.
You can also practice every time you read a book, you read it loud.
And the most important thing is to continue building up your core confidence by going out and talk to random people regularly.

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